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    Lifestyle » Be Awesome: Keep Working

    January 15, 2020 Lifestyle

    Be Awesome: Keep Working

    There's only one thing you can do to reach your goals, and that's to keep working toward them. And don't forget to be awesome.

    Be Awesome: Keep Working | How to Be Awesome on $20 a Day

    If there's one thing I'm really good at, it's quitting. I've lost track of the of how many times I almost quit writing this silly little food blog. I'd put in a bunch of time and energy for a few weeks, then life would get stressful, and it was an easy thing to eliminate. "Nobody reads it anyway, so what's the point," I'd tell myself. I'd throw a little pity party in my mind and justify not putting in the effort.


    I completely erased the possibility of making blogging a job. I sucked, so what was the point? No, I wouldn't even let myself think about it. I should just learn to be satisfied with what I have. It's not a terrible life. So what if I wasn't completely in love with my job? Most people aren't. I'm just being selfish wanting something that I will clearly never be able to achieve. Just quit.

    But for some reason, I always came back. Sometimes I'd disappear for weeks, but I'd always find my way back somehow. Why? Why couldn't I just make a clean break and walk away?

    I think it's because I still really wanted it. I still had a spark of belief that I could do what other people had done and support myself with a food blog. Look, I don't need six figures. I just want to have some control over my life. I want to have my success measured by my own work, and not by the whims of a teenager. Mostly, I just really want to bake cookies in my yoga pants instead of going to the office.

    But when I feel overwhelmed and discouraged, quitting is so easy. So tempting. Nobody else is depending on me. I can just walk away, and it won't matter. It won't matter to anyone but me. I'll know that I failed at yet another thing. I gave up because I'm a loser.

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    One of the things I've been doing the past few months is really putting a lot of intentional effort into changing the way I talk to myself. I was extremely hard on myself, and maybe you are, too. How many times a day do we allow the voice in our head to criticize and belittle us? Probably too many to count. You would never, for a minute, considering talking that way to a friend, but when it's just you alone in your head, you suddenly turn into a complete monster.

    Despite all these good intentions, there are have been times in the past few weeks where, yet again, that voice in my head has told me to quit. I'm wasting my time. It will never work. I'm awful, and I should just give up now. Take a nap or watch a movie instead. I suck. Get used to it.

    But this time, I'm not listening.

    I'm trying to change a lot about myself and the way I approach my blog right now. I'm never going to turn it into a business if I just keep quitting. The only way to get ahead is to keep moving forward. Maybe it's true that I'm just not good enough. That's one version of the story I could tell myself. Or maybe I just need to work harder, get better, become so good they can't ignore me.

    I choose to keep working. To keep learning, to keep growing, to keep trying, right here in front of your eyes. And I sincerely hope that if there's something you've been turning away from because it was easier not to try, that you give it one more go. Put your whole soul into it this time, and just see what happens. And then when it seems like it's not going to work, just try a little harder this time.

    Trust me. There are enough people in this world who want to tell us that we suck. We don't need to do it to ourselves. So let me tell you right now that you are brilliant. You deserve to have your dreams come true. Whatever you do, don't quit. Don't let that negative voice boss you around. Get up in the morning, take a shower, put on your favorite shirt, remind yourself that you are awesome, and go out there and kick some ass, friends. It's gonna be the best year yet. We'll get there together.

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    1. Chuck says

      January 15, 2020 at 3:51 am

      Really good. Certainly resonated with me.

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      • Renee says

        January 15, 2020 at 7:21 am

        Thanks so much. Means a lot coming from you.

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